Sunday, January 17, 2010

Mommy! Mommy!




So, I just love being a dad, for reals! It's just a blast and I never thought I would like it so much, but it's a lot of fun. It makes me feel bad for all those out there that think of their career is more important than having a family because let me be honest with you, YOU ARE MISSING OUT! I've done a few things in my day. Some highlights include being a rock star on guitar hero, becoming a homeowner, winning a law school advocacy competition, hitting a grand slam with two outs and two strikes in the last inning of the game (it was almost a comeback, we lost by 2), pitching a no-hitter (actually, I think it was a 2-hitter), getting a 4.0, acing a chemistry test, breaking a weight-lifting record in Utah, serving a mission, getting sealed in the temple and winning the local ward football tournament. However, NOTHING compares to the day after day experience of having a loving wife and being a dad. The biggest difference I think is that these experiences are great and I really enjoy them, but then they pass and they end. On the other hand, being part of a family doesn't...I'm part of the same family day after day. There is nothing like coming home and greeted by Amanda and little Keedan. Now, I realize a lot of the past experiences laid the foundation for the family life I'm enjoying now, (and it helps me realize just how important the gospel really is) but it is just great.



So, the title to this post has special meaning (Mommy!Mommy!). When Keedan was younger he knew how to say one word, DADDY! He said it all the time and I think Amanda even felt bad that he said Daddy all the time and didn't say Mommy much. It felt great for me though and I even admit that I gloated a little to Amanda about how Keedan liked me more. I know, sorry, I have my weaknesses. Well, the tables have turned and it seems Amanda is getting revenge. You see, Keedan still loves his dad, but he seems to have decided in his mind that Mommy and Daddy pretty much mean the same thing. He's decided that he can use the two words interchangeable and he's also decided that saying Mommy is easier!!!! So, it's just a little funny when I walk in the room or get home from work and Keedan screams, "Mommy!" Just one of the funny things that goes along with being a parent.

1 comment:

Camilia said...

That was quite profound Ryan! I enjoyed reading this a lot :D ...and I love keedan, he is the bomb and love that he calls you mommy now!